RELATIONAL REPAIR COACHING
Trust - Connection - Clarity
Maybe you are strong in many parts of life—work, responsibility, showing up for others - but in your relationships, something keeps hurting, repeating, or shutting down.
You want connection.
You want passion.
You want calm.
But too often, you end up in distance, tension, confusion, or emotional exhaustion.
Relational Repair Coaching helps you change that pattern.
Not with quick fixes.
Not with blame.
With honest, grounded work that brings you back to yourself—and from there, back to real connection.
From poison to antidote
Many people carry a relational poison:
old hurt, resentment, fear, shame, distrust, emotional armour.
Sometimes it comes from divorce.
Sometimes from old emotional wounds.
Sometimes from years of mis-attunement, where love existed but safety and understanding were missing.
The antidote is not pretending it didn’t happen.
The antidote is building new relational capacity, so you can:
feel clear in what you want,
honour your boundaries,
stay connected to empathy,
speak and listen with presence,
create intimacy without abandoning yourself.
The garden and the road ahead
When pain runs the system, it casts a shadow over trust, intimacy, and communication.
Relational repair helps that shadow lose power, so your garden can grow again.
Your garden is your emotional life, your values, your desires, your ability to trust, and your ability to love without losing yourself.
We strengthen the roots first:
self-awareness,
emotional regulation,
relational honesty.
So what grows next is real and sustainable.
How we work
I combine professional coaching with Somatica-based relational work.
We don’t only talk about relationships—we work with what is happening in real time, in your body, emotions, and relational habits.
You practice new ways of showing up, step by step, in ways that feel grounded and doable in everyday life.
This work is for individuals and couples.
Many clients are men, and this space is for any person ready for honest relational work.